Fear in her eyes

         

           यत्र नार्यस्तु पूज्यन्ते, रमन्ते तत्र देवताः।

        यत्रैतास्तु न पूज्यन्ते, सर्वास्तत्राफलाः क्रियाः॥

It means Where women are worshiped, there lives the Gods. Wherever they are not worshiped, all actions result in failure.

                           This is said long ago in our ancient books , so do we follow them ? Is Nari (the lady)  worshipped or she is been worrying ? 

                           Have any one of us has thought what the girl has been going through now a days. Safety of the girl is just to be spoken or to be political issue, but is it been taken care of ? One girl is more in fear through her life then she is happy in her life ! Why ? 

                           It is the nation where we call our nation as mother Bharat mata, for wealth we worship goddess Laxmi , for knowledge we worship goddess Saraswati, for power we worship goddess Kali,  but we don't even respect them when it comes to normal girl.  One  can respect their mother, thier sister,wife or female relatives but not the same when it comes to a strange girl, why ?

                         How much problem should a girl under go right from her birth till the death & how much should she  suffer. She is in fear when she wear cloth of her interest , She is in fear when is in a cab, She is in fear when she travel alone , she is in fear at each and every moment of her life  , c'mon guys men are not that bad , I accept some girls don't deserve or are not eligible for this but being a true gentleman you should respect . You never get small when you take a step behind & for girls even boys have thier self-respect , thier capability you should respect them. See guys you can't judge a book by a cover you have to get into the book to know the book.

                             The girl should feel safe in our country , if you like a girl ask her try to impress her , show her that she deserves you , respect her, gain her trust. Just don't certify her slut if she rejects you , you have to earn the respect it's not gained by bullying. We have to take out the fear in her eyes , then next time we see a girl she should not get offended by you & respecting girls is mentioned even in our culture and following culture is our responsibility because when one respect the culture, the elders, the nari & himself then no one can stop that man from getting the success.

                       About 18,000 rape cases are been filed in India , and some are not filled by fearing of reputation , India is been ranked in top countries where rapes are committed , so is this top where you want to see India, One girl can has capability to change many lives by Bering a Mother, a sister, a friend, a wife , an aunt and we are about to destroy that one girl.

                       And here there is not all the mistake of males only some ladies have the habbit of judging girls in basis of thier dressing, thier working , c'mon if you can't respect your gender then how can you expect other to do ? 

                        So let's pledge together that eyes of fear should be eyes of hopes & eyes of change & we shall do it !

-Anant Sarika Nadgouda